
I'm not very big into doing wedding photography, because I find the entire thing extremely stressful; what with the couple being stressed, the parents of the couple being stressed, and the *need* to just get the perfect shot at the perfect time.
I know some photographers who excel in that type of situation; I am not one of them. However, it hasn't stopped me from doing the occassional wedding for friends as a favor or at a reduced cost, but I don't do it often. I've probably done a handful of weddings in the past 5 years, which I think is pretty good rate. I've looked at other wedding photographers' portfolios thinking, "It's just really a matter of practice and doing this over and over to the point where you just get used to it."
However, it's the part of trying to get used to it that causes stress. Put yourself through stress so you get used to stress so you wont't stress out when you're stressed. Somehow that doesn't quite sound right to me. *lol*
So, I would have thought that doing various friends' weddings would help me get over that stress-level. Yet, I find my friends' weddings even more stressful as there is a certain emotional investment in doing a good job for them. So, I find myself doing weddings very rarely.

Personally, I like doing the pre-wedding shots. The ones where you can stage the bride with lighting and props to make her look good. No stress, no worries, but then again, that's not really wedding photography, is it?
Whenever I do a wedding, I find myself longing for just one more extra body so that I have the right lens at the right time. Heck, I'd even opt for an assistant who can anticipate my every move and hand me the right tool at the right time (much like a really good golf valet who hands you the right club at the right time so I've seen in the movies....)
But, it's just not the camera equipment either. There's also the outfit to wear to the wedding. For guys, this is easy with black dress shoes and simple black slacks and a nice button-down shirt. For women, this isn't so easy.
The one thing I've found with doing weddings is that I'm always on the move; getting shots of guests, family, of picturesque moments. This means comfortable shoes. However, when you're a 'photography guest', you should dress up so that you don't stick out like a sore thumb with jeans and a t-shirt.
On my very first wedding, I made the mistake of wearing heels. They were very low and normally very comfortable, but I hadn't anticipated being on my feet non-stop for 6 hours. OUCH! Luckily, I found some nice, modest, FLAT, comfy black shoes that should go with almost everything at my local mall.
But I still need to figure out some 'outfit' -- preferably not a dress or with any form of skirt -- that allows me to move around, blend in with guests, is comfy, and has pockets. I've gotten too used to wearing my photo vest around when I go out photo-shooting, or my comfy cargo pants with its multitude of pockets.
Unfortunately, most of the nice outfits with pants that fit this criteria make me look like I'm going to a power lunch instead of a wedding. I've tried various outfits, and nothing quite works the best. One day, I'll find the right wedding/photography outfit, preferably the next time I do a wedding (which will hopefully be in the far off future).
And, insofar as my own wedding and any photography for that special event? I'll be hiring one, preferably an acquaintance at most, and definitely not a friend. I don't want to put one of my friends through the stress.